Sonnet XVII: His Mother Dear Cupid — Summary

His mother dear Cupid offended late, Because that Mars grown slacker in her love, With pricking shot he did not throughly more To keep the pace of their first loving state.

The boy refus'd for fear of Mars's hate, Who threaten'd stripes, if he his wrath did prove: But she in chafe him from her lap did shove, Brake bow, brake shafts, while Cupid weeping sate:

Till that his grandame Nature pityijng it Of stella's brows make him two better bows, And in her eyes of arrows infinite.

Oh how for joy he leaps, oh how he crows, And straight therewith like wags new got to play, Falls to shrewd turns, and I was in his way.

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The sonnet spins a playful myth: Venus scolds her son Cupid for failing to keep Mars passionately in love. When the boy hesitates, afraid of Mars’s anger, she shoves him from her lap and smashes his bow and arrows. Cupid sits weeping until Nature, his grandmother, takes pity. She fashions him two superior bows from Stella’s arched eyebrows and a limitless supply of arrows from her eyes.

Overjoyed, the little god springs up and immediately starts causing trouble again — and the speaker ends up right in his path. The poem’s mood is witty and lighthearted, treating falling in love as a cosmic accident. There’s no grand despair here, only a rueful, half-amused shrug. The speaker has been struck by beauty so potent it feels like divine mischief, leaving him a helpless but almost charmed target.

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