The Time I've Lost In Wooing — Summary

Thomas MooreContemplative

The time I've lost in wooing, In watching and pursuing The light that lies In woman's eyes, Has been my heart's undoing. Tho' Wisdom oft has sought me, I scorn'd the lore she brought me, My only books Were women's looks, And folly's all they taught me.

Her smile when Beauty granted, I hung with gaze enchanted, Like him the Sprite Whom maids by night Oft meet in glen that's haunted. Like him, too, Beauty won me; But when the spell was on me, If once their ray Was turn'd away, O! winds could not outrun me.

And are those follies going? And is my proud heart growing Too cold or wise For brillant eyes Again to set it glowing? No -- vain, alas! th' endeavour From bonds so sweet to sever: -- Poor Wisdom's chance Against a glance Is now as weak as ever.

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The speaker looks back on all the time wasted wooing, mesmerised by the light in women’s eyes. He ignored every wise lesson, his only real study their faces, and all they taught was foolishness. He likens himself to a sprite that country girls meet in haunted glens — enchanted by a lovely smile, but fleeing the moment the spell breaks. When her gaze turned elsewhere, the wind couldn’t keep up with his hurt retreat.

Now, older and rueful, he wonders if his heart has grown too cold or wise for brilliant eyes. The answer is a dry, self-mocking no: breaking such sweet bonds is useless. A single glance still defeats poor wisdom every time. The mood is warm, bittersweet — half confession, half tender shrug — as he admits he’s never really learned his lesson and doesn’t much want to.

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