To a Child of Quality, Five Years Old, 1704. The Author then Forty — Summary

LORDS, knights, and squires, the numerous band That wear the fair Miss Mary's fetters, Were summoned by her high command To show their passions by their letters.

My pen amongst the rest I took, Lest those bright eyes, that cannot read, Should dart their kindling fire, and look The power they have to be obey'd.

Nor quality, nor reputation, Forbid me yet my flame to tell; Dear Five-years-old befriends my passion, And I may write till she can spell.

For, while she makes her silkworms beds With all the tender things I swear; Whilst all the house my passion reads, In papers round her baby's hair;

She may receive and own my flame; For, though the strictest prudes should know it, She'll pass for a most virtuous dame, And I for an unhappy poet.

Then too, alas! when she shall tear The rhymes some younger rival sends, She'll give me leave to write, I fear, And we shall still continue friends.

For, as our different ages move, 'Tis so ordain'd (would Fate but mend it!), That I shall be past making love When she begins to comprehend it.

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A forty-year-old man writes a mock love letter to a wealthy five-year-old named Mary, pretending to be as smitten as the lords and knights who supposedly court her. His tone is playful from the start: since she can’t yet read, he feels free to shower her with affectionate, over-the-top declarations without real consequence. The joke is that while the adults around her see his verses and smile, Mary herself is blissfully unaware, using his poems to line her silkworm beds or curl around her doll’s hair. Even the strictest onlookers can’t object—she seems perfectly innocent, and he just a harmless, love-struck poet.

Beneath the wit, there’s a tender, slightly wistful current. The speaker imagines a future when she’ll be old enough to attract real suitors, yet by then he’ll be too old to feel such passion. The poem’s charm lies in this gentle collision of childhood innocence and adult longing, creating a mood that’s light, affectionate, and touched with the melancholy of passing time.

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