To Harriet — Summary

Thy look of love has power to calm The stormiest passion of my soul; Thy gentle words are drops of balm In life's too bitter bowl; No grief is mine, but that alone These choicest blessings I have known.

Harriet! if all who long to live In the warm sunshine of thine eye, That price beyond all pain must give,-- Beneath thy scorn to die; Then hear thy chosen own too late His heart most worthy of thy hate.

Be thou, then, one among mankind Whose heart is harder not for state, Thou only virtuous, gentle, kind, Amid a world of hate; And by a slight endurance seal A fellow-being's lasting weal.

For pale with anguish is his cheek, His breath comes fast, his eyes are dim, Thy name is struggling ere he speak, Weak is each trembling limb; In mercy let him not endure The misery of a fatal cure.

Oh, trust for once no erring guide! Bid the remorseless feeling flee; 'Tis malice, 'tis revenge, 'tis pride, 'Tis anything but thee; Oh, deign a nobler pride to prove, And pity if thou canst not love.

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A man addresses Harriet with a passion that teeters between adoration and despair. Her loving look can calm his wildest inner storms; her gentle words are the only relief in a life he finds painfully bitter. Yet even as he tells her this, a darker note creeps in. His only grief, he says, is having known such perfect blessings—because the threat of losing them is unbearable.

The rest of the poem becomes a breathless plea. He imagines that winning a place in her affection demands suffering her scorn unto death, and he begs her not to be that kind of cold, proud figure. He describes his own body breaking down—pale cheek, racing breath, trembling limbs—as evidence of his torment. Rather than a cruel rejection he calls a “fatal cure,” he asks her to show a “nobler pride”: pity, even if she cannot love. The mood is intensely vulnerable, full of romantic anguish and a desperate, quivering hope.

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