Stanzas to a Friend — Poem analysis

RobinsonContemplative

AH! think no more that Life's delusive joys, Can charm my thoughts from FRIENDSHIP'S dearer claim; Or wound a heart, that scarce a wish employs, For age to censure, or discretion blame.

Tir'd of the world, my weary mind recoils From splendid scenes, and transitory joys; From fell Ambition's false and fruitless toils, From hope that flatters, and from bliss that cloys.

With THEE, above the taunts of empty pride, The rigid frowns to youthful error given; Content in solitude my griefs I'll hide, Thy voice my counsellor­thy smiles my Heaven.

With thee I'll hail the morn's returning ray, Or climb the dewy mountain bleak and cold; On the smooth lake observe the sun-beams play, Or mark the infant flow'rs their buds unfold.

Pleas'd will I watch the glitt'ring queen of Night Spread her white mantle o'er the face of Heaven; And from thy converse snatch the pure delight, By truth sublime to MENTAL feeling given.

And as the varying seasons glide away, This moral lesson shall my bosom learn, How TIME steals on, while blissful hours decay Like fleeting shadows;­NEVER to return.

And when I see thy warm unspotted mind, Torn with the wound of broken FRIENDSHIP'S dart; When sickness chills thy breast with pangs unkind, Or ruthless sorrow preys upon thy heart;

The task be MINE to soothe thee to repose, To check the sigh, and wipe the trickling tear, Or with soft SYMPATHY to share thy woes; O, proudest rapture of the soul sincere !

And ye who flutter thro' the vacant hour, Where tasteless Apathy's empoison'd wand Arrests the vagrant sense with numbing pow'r, While vanquish'd REASON bows at her command.

O say, what bliss can transient Life bestow, What balm so grateful to the social mind, As FRIENDSHIP'S voice­where gentle precepts flow From the blest source of sentiment refin'd?

When FATE'S stern hand shall close my weeping eye, And seal, at length, my wand'ring spirit's doom; Oh! may kind FRIENDSHIP catch my parting sigh, And cheer with HOPE the terrors of the TOMB.

Show the whole poemHide the poem

Learn Poems app

Try the Learn Poems app

Everything from the website trainer, and more: new exercises, voice recording and sharing, reminders, quick review.

In Robinson's "Stanzas to a Friend," friendship is less a pleasure than a rescue plan. The speaker begins by waving away an imagined suspicion, "think no more" that life's glitter could pull their thoughts from a friend's claim. Eleven quatrains then explain why the world has nothing to offer that a loyal companion cannot beat. Nothing is known here about who the friend is or what prompted the verses, and the poem never says. What it offers is an argument, built stage by stage.

The first two stanzas are a renunciation. Ambition is "fell," its toils "false and fruitless," and the speaker turns from "hope that flatters, and from bliss that cloys." Both are pleasant things that go sour, one by lying and the other by excess. The word "joys" ends a line in each stanza, first "delusive," then "transitory," and in the second stanza it rhymes with "cloys," so the word itself starts to taste sickly. Against this comes the line that carries the poem's heart: "Thy voice my counsellor—thy smiles my Heaven." Heaven is then used again for the night sky in stanza five, and both times it rhymes with "given." The repetition suggests the friend and the sky are offering the same kind of consolation.

The nature scenes are gentle and supervised. The pair climb a "dewy mountain bleak and cold," watch sunbeams play on a "smooth lake," and see "infant flow'rs" open. Even the moon is a "queen of Night" spreading a "white mantle." These are backdrops for conversation, and what the speaker wants to "snatch" is "pure delight" from the friend's "converse." Stanza six then darkens the mood. As seasons "glide away," hours "decay / Like fleeting shadows," and the capitalised NEVER gives the lesson its finality. The pleasure of the earlier stanzas is suddenly urgent, because it is running out.

The poem then looks at what friendship demands. The speaker imagines the friend's "unspotted mind" wounded by "broken FRIENDSHIP'S dart," or chilled by sickness, and promises "to check the sigh, and wipe the trickling tear." Calling this "the proudest rapture of the soul sincere" is a nice paradox, since the pride is in serving. Roles keep shifting across the poem. In stanza three the speaker hides griefs in solitude, in stanzas seven and eight the friend is the sufferer, and in the last stanza the speaker is the one dying. So friendship accompanies a whole life, from walks at sunrise to the deathbed. The final wish, that friendship may "catch my parting sigh," quietly answers stanza eight, where the speaker offered to check the friend's sigh. Care given is finally care asked for.

The ninth and tenth stanzas turn on a new audience, "ye who flutter thro' the vacant hour." The verb makes the idle crowd sound like moths, busy and aimless. They are in the grip of "tasteless Apathy's empoison'd wand," a sorceress whose "numbing pow'r" leaves "vanquish'd REASON" bowing to her. The sentence spills across the stanza break and ends in a challenge: "O say, what bliss can transient Life bestow" to match friendship's voice? Here the imagery contrasts paralysis with movement, since Apathy "arrests" the senses while friendship's precepts "flow" from a "source of sentiment refin'd."

Formally, the poem is steady and public in manner. Every stanza is an ABAB quatrain in regular iambic pentameter, with most lines ending on a punctuation mark, so the voice sounds measured and declamatory. Abstractions such as FRIENDSHIP, TIME, FATE, HOPE, REASON and SYMPATHY are capitalised and treated as characters. That gives the poem dignity, but it also keeps feeling general. There is no named place, no incident, and the friend remains simply "thee."

That generality is also a clue to its interest. The vocabulary of sympathy, sentiment and "MENTAL feeling" shows a way of thinking in which emotional sensitivity counted as moral worth, and in which friendship could be argued as a serious alternative to ambition and fashion. For a modern reader, the poem's value lies in that conviction, stated with complete sincerity: that a life measured by "fleeting shadows" is best spent attending to another person, and being attended to in return.

Read also

More by Robinson

All poems
SadRobinson

Sonnet XXXVII: When, in the Gloomy Mansion

When, in the gloomy mansion of the dead, This with'ring heart, this faded form shall sleep; When these fond eyes, at length shall cease to weep, And earth's cold lap receive this fev'rish head;
ContemplativeRobinson

Stanzas to the Rose

SWEET PICTURE of Life's chequer'd hour! Ah, wherefore droop thy blushing head? Tell me, oh tell me, hap'less flow'r, Is it because thy charms are fled?
SadRobinson

Elegy to the Memory of Werter

"With female Fairies will thy tomb be haunted "And worms will not come to thee." SHAKSPERE. WHEN from Day's closing eye the lucid tears Fall lightly on the bending lily's head;