For All the Grief — Summary

Walter de la MareContemplative

For all the grief I have given with words May now a few clear flowers blow, In the dust, and the heat, and the silence of birds, Where the lonely go.

For the thing unsaid that heart asked of me Be a dark, cool water calling--calling To the footsore, benighted, solitary, When the shadows are falling.

O, be beauty for all my blindness, A moon in the air where the weary wend, And dews burdened with loving-kindness In the dark of the end.

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Walter de la Mare’s speaker is asking forgiveness and hoping that his past failures might somehow be turned into comfort for others. He regrets both the hurtful things he has said and the tender words he never managed to speak. So he makes a wish: let those old griefs now become small mercies—flowers in a dusty silence, cool water for the exhausted, moonlight for the weary, dew full of kindness at the end.

There is a quiet, remorseful, gently elegiac mood. No anger here, only a soft, prayerful longing to undo harm and to offer rest to those who are lonely, lost, or nearing death. The images are all of relief after hardship—shade, water, moon, coolness. The speaker moves from personal regret toward a compassionate wish for anyone who suffers.

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