The speaker watches an old woman and feels a sudden jolt of surprise: when did she turn into “this woman, talking / of young men”? The title suggests she is ninety-eight, which makes the question both tender and unsettling. Age comes gradually, but the speaker experiences the change as abrupt, as if noticing it all at once. The phrase “this woman” has a little distance in it, as though the person has become someone slightly unfamiliar. The lines don’t explain whether the talk of young men is flirtatious, nostalgic, or wandering; they leave that ambiguity open. What comes through is a quiet, intimate mood—part wonder, part loss—and the recognition that a loved one has entered a new stage of life.
Ninety-Eight — Summary
When did she become, and so suddenly,
this woman, talking of young men?