The Instructions — Summary

have all been written down, but still she has trouble working the TV. She calls me up to say the device has turned itself off again, and could I come over and turn it back on? Just look at the notes Nana, I say. I wrote the instructions down for you. It’s a similar story with the microwave, with its buttons seemingly designed to perplex her. The internet is a true enigma. I just don’t know how to manage, now that he’s gone. The place is just so big, so empty. And the bills, she says. Michael used to sort the bills – now I don’t know what to do. I try to assure her that all is OK, all is in order, the electricity won’t run out, the hot water won’t suddenly go cold. She hunches into herself. Tired now. Old. She reuses a tea bag to make a weak tea.

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A grandchild has written down how to use the TV, the microwave, the internet, but Nana still calls for help. At first the speaker sounds mildly tired: “Just look at the notes Nana.” But the real difficulty soon appears. She doesn’t know how to manage now that “he’s gone”; Michael used to sort the bills, and the house feels big and empty. What starts as a practical problem becomes an emotional one. The speaker tries to comfort her, promising the electricity won’t run out and the hot water won’t go cold, but reassurance can’t reach the deeper loss.

The mood is quiet, tender, and faintly melancholy. The final image—Nana hunched into herself, reusing a tea bag to make weak tea—shows her smallness, fatigue, and old habits. The written instructions can handle machines, but not grief, loneliness, or the weight of living alone.

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