Things to do with human bones in the Neolithic — Summary

Dave BontaContemplative

Deflesh them with bone knives. Let the wolves and ravens deflesh them. Gather them into skin bags and bury them under the hearth. Feed them beer. Dig them up every fall and dance with them. Dig ditches around them so the uninitiated cannot get too close. Build mounds over them so the otherworld can ascend and be closer to us. Organize them by size and type. Rearrange them into new, mash-up ancestors. Break them so they will not follow us in our dreams. Suck out the marrow so their spirits will protect us in our dreams. Burn them and place them in jars of clay decorated with rows of pits, as from missing teeth. Erect stones around them in a circle so they will remember us who stand in the light.

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Written as a set of instructions, this poem lists the many ways people in the Neolithic might have handled the bones of their dead. Some are brutal: stripping flesh, breaking bones, sucking out marrow. Others are tender or playful: feeding the bones beer, dancing with them, burying them under the hearth. The tone stays flat and matter-of-fact, which makes the strangeness hit harder.

What stands out is how the instructions contradict each other. Bones are broken so the dead won't follow us in dreams, then the marrow is sucked out so their spirits will protect us in dreams. The speaker doesn't try to untangle this. The poem suggests that the living kept the dead close and kept them at a distance, both at once, out of love and fear.

The mood is curious, a little eerie, and oddly warm. The closing image of standing stones in a circle, so the dead will "remember us who stand in the light," gives the list a quiet, human ache: we want to be remembered, too.

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