The Unlearning — Summary

Dave BontaContemplative

first let go of the obscurer wildflowers the quadratic formula

the plots of novels you’ll never read again

it gets easier the less you cling to things

do you need to know for example how to make fire or small talk or change

the stomach forgets milk feet forget the ground

eventually one surrenders time itself

to the blur of eternity a cat sleeping in the sun

while the livestock settle moaning into their stalls

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Dave Bonta's poem reads like gentle instructions for losing everything. It begins with small, almost forgivable losses: obscure wildflower names, a math formula, the plots of novels. Then the list grows more serious. The speaker asks whether we really need to know how to make fire, make small talk, or "change," a word that slips from spare coins into the idea of changing as a person. Even the body joins in, as the stomach forgets milk and feet forget the ground.

The tone stays calm, even tender. The speaker doesn't seem frightened by all this forgetting; "it gets easier the less / you cling." Giving up time itself leads not to emptiness but to an image of peace: a cat asleep in the sun, livestock settling into their stalls. The "moaning" of the animals adds a faint note of weariness, but the overall mood is quiet acceptance, like the end of a long day.

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