Funeral instructions — Summary

Dave BontaCheerful

Call up a merry rump to carry to the grave.

Dine below the buttery church of money.

Dine at a secluded grave on the horse of the house.

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Written as a set of instructions for one's own funeral, this short piece sounds more like a party invitation than a farewell. The speaker asks for "a merry rump" to carry the body to the grave, a cheeky phrase that mixes a joke about backsides with the idea of a cheerful, ragtag group of pallbearers. Death is treated lightly, even playfully.

The meal that follows gets just as much attention. The speaker wants it eaten "below the buttery / church of money," which seems to poke fun at a grand, wealthy, perhaps self-satisfied church, and prefers instead a "secluded grave" for dining. The odd final image of the "horse of the house" is hard to pin down. It might mean a favourite animal, or something more symbolic, and the poem leaves that open.

The mood is irreverent, warm and a little surreal. The speaker seems to want laughter, food and company rather than solemn ritual or show.

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