In Loving Memory — Summary

The stone idols of our ancestors lie face-down across the graves they were made to watch over. Lips worn whistle-thin by the corrosive breath of engines seek relief in the soil, where perhaps the live wires of nematodes might revive them, or ivy cover them with feathers that actually move.

Only a few feet down the crowd awaits, growing more anonymous by the year. Perhaps they can reach those winter trees through dissolution, like stalactites. They shape the darkness in their own image: a mask of dirt, a vessel, a full breast.

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Standing in a graveyard, the speaker sees how little the old rituals of remembrance have held up. The stone guardians placed over the graves have fallen face-down, their lips worn thin by the exhaust of engines. Rather than mourn this, the speaker imagines the statues finding relief in the earth, where tiny worms or creeping ivy might bring them back to a kind of life.

The second stanza turns to the dead themselves, a crowd that grows more anonymous with each year. The tone is quiet and curious rather than grief-stricken. The speaker wonders whether the dead can reach the winter trees through slow dissolution, the way stalactites form drop by drop. Out of the darkness they shape something new: a mask, a vessel, a full breast. These images suggest that decay is not only an ending but also a return to the earth, something that holds and feeds. The mood is calm, strange, and oddly comforting.

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