Are You Okay ? — Poem analysis

FlorencianeContemplative

Three words Are you okay? What is the expected answer? What is the right answer ?

Three words That make you think about your life It should be easy right? It's a Yes/No question! So why aren't you answering?

Instead you're writing about the question. Once again, Are you okay?

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Most of us have asked "Are you okay?" a hundred times and have heard "Fine, you?" before the question has finished landing. Florenciane's poem begins at the moment that automatic reply fails. It is about the gap between what the question appears to ask, a simple yes-or-no matter, and what it actually opens up: an honest look at one's own life. Its central idea is that the plainest questions can be the hardest to answer, and that circling, hesitating and writing around the answer may be the only honest response available.

The poem is free verse with no rhyme and no regular metre. Its three stanzas of four, five and three lines get shorter and tighter as it goes. That suits its subject, since nothing here is polished or settled. The opening words, "Three words", sound almost clinical, as if the speaker were holding the question up like an object to count and inspect. The phrase returns at the start of the second stanza, but now it has a consequence: the words "make you think about your life." Three syllables-worth of small talk grow into a whole life under review, and the repetition lets us watch that happen.

The rhythm comes mostly from the questions. There are six question marks in the body of the poem, and they pile up so quickly that the poem feels like an interrogation. The speaker asks first "What is the expected answer?" and then "What is the right answer ?" Those are not the same thing. The "expected" answer is the social script, the one that keeps a conversation moving. The "right" answer would be the true one. The poem never says which it is hunting for, and that uncertainty is the problem. The word "right" comes back in "It should be easy right?", where it turns into a small tag question that seeks reassurance. The word "should" admits that the speaker already knows how easy it ought to be and how easy it isn't.

The tone shifts as the second stanza goes on. "It's a Yes/No question!" is the poem's only exclamation mark, and it sounds like someone trying to argue themselves into confidence, or losing patience with themselves. Then the voice turns on itself: "So why aren't you answering?" The poem never uses "I". The speaker addresses a "you," which could be an inner voice, a friend or the reader. Judging by the text, that distance may be part of the evasion, because it is easier to scold "you" for not answering than to say "I'm not sure I am okay."

The turn comes with "Instead you're writing about the question." This line makes the poem look at itself. The poem we are reading is the evidence of the failure to answer, a yes-or-no question turned into twelve lines of avoidance. The typography adds to this. The title sits in guillemets with a space before its question mark, and the same space appears in "right answer ?" Whether deliberate or not, the stray gap reads like a hesitation, a breath before committing.

The ending is circular. "Once again," sits alone on its line like a sigh, and then the opening question returns word for word, but we now read it differently, having seen what it costs. It ends on a question mark, not a full stop, and the poem never tells us whether the speaker is okay.

Almost nothing here is figurative. There are no metaphors or vivid images, only plain, everyday words, and the poem's force comes from that bareness. The question strips away decoration, and so does the poem. Its significance lies in how much it makes from so little. A phrase we say without thinking becomes something we cannot say without thinking, and by withholding an answer the poem hands the question to us. By the last line, "you" is no longer just the speaker. It is whoever is reading.

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