To Be — Summary

Jessea L. VaughanContemplative

Or to not exist To live Or to die To believe Or to question To love Or to hate To decide Not because you have to But because it makes sense, What's the use Of an ignorant life Of mindless indecision For just being Just existing Just living then dying Loving or hating Is all a waste if you do it Just because you have to Not because it makes sense.

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Vaughan's poem opens by echoing Hamlet's famous question, but quickly turns it into something more everyday. The speaker lines up pairs of opposites: living or dying, believing or questioning, loving or hating. The point isn't which side to choose. What matters is why. The speaker insists that a choice should be made "because it makes sense," not because we feel we have to.

The tone is restless and a little impatient. Short, stripped-down lines make the poem feel like someone thinking out loud, and the repeated "just" in "just being / just existing / just living then dying" sounds almost dismissive, as if mere survival isn't enough. The speaker seems frustrated by "mindless indecision" and by drifting through life on autopilot. By the end, even love and hate count as wasted if they come from habit or pressure. The mood is questioning and urgent, with a quiet challenge to the reader: are your choices really your own?

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