Children Grow Up-and Change-Another Goodbye — Summary

Linda BRomantic

Today, I watched you roll the hula hoop all across the park, whooping at your prowess. It was going and going, like the years behind you, away and around and away! We used to stand ten feet apart and I would say, Put your hands out, Ready? then I’d pitch the ball.

Now, you throw the football, spiraling straight to the target, me, a real football that demands I wear my garden gloves. You catch it every time,

without me asking, Ready? You still tell me what’s going on with friends and enemies. You say, What do you think, Grandma?

I think the years behind you, every one leave me joy-filled, seeing the pictures in my mind of times we’ve spent together. There was Candyland and Old Maid, on to Ruckus and Trash, now long games of Monopoly where I still try not to win every time.

I’ve already won, because I have you.

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A grandmother watches her grandchild play in the park and sees, in a rolling hula hoop, how quickly the years have passed. The hoop keeps going "away and around and away," just like the child's growing up. She remembers standing ten feet apart, gently pitching a ball, and compares it with now, when the child fires a real football that makes her put on garden gloves.

The speaker's feelings are tender and a little wistful, but joy wins out. Her list of games, from Candyland and Old Maid to Monopoly, works like a photo album of shared time. What matters most is that the child still confides in her and asks, "What do you think, Grandma?" The closing lines turn the sadness of "another goodbye" into gratitude: she doesn't need to win the game, because she already has the grandchild. The mood is warm, gentle, and quietly proud.

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