REARING HOMINIDS — Summary

The year they found her bones my son was riding my hip. The year they found her bones he learned to sing, sitting on my lap: Row, row, row your boat, life is but a dream. I watched him climb the chairs, he practiced stairs. We made faces: Can you make a happy face? Angry? Silly? Sad?

He learned to say please and thank you, the intricate gaze and glance. Sentences grew long. He found meter and rhyme, the spine of his stamping dance.

Raising little hominids takes time.

Juvenile, he stalked us with his friends, spying from the edges of the lawn; always they carried sticks. He kept an eye on girls, to see, he said. what they’ll do next. Adolescent, he found his clan; invented lives and names.

Now, he’s a long walk away but the mother-bond holds tight: his low voice on the phone every Sunday night. I believe Lucy held together. Our hearts shatter, people scatter. Our bones come apart.

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A mother traces her son's growth from baby to grown man, and she describes it in the language of human evolution. The "her bones" in the opening lines point to Lucy, the famous fossil hominid, whom the speaker names later. As her boy learns songs, faces, manners and rhythm, he becomes a little hominid: a juvenile stalking with sticks, then an adolescent finding his "clan."

The tone starts warm and playful, full of nursery rhymes and small discoveries. It turns quieter near the end. Her son now lives "a long walk away," and the mother-bond survives in a Sunday-night phone call. The final lines shift to something sadder. Lucy "held together," but people don't: hearts shatter, families scatter, bones come apart. The speaker seems to feel both tenderness and an ache. Children grow up and leave, and the poem suggests that this ancient pattern of separation is part of being human, though love still reaches across the distance.

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