How to Love a Wall — Summary

The bricks are just perfectly the color of her lips Cracked like an old scab He presses his shuddering fingers into the soft red flesh Whispering sweet nothings To the apparition of aching memories His clouded eyes miss the white cracks Not to be allowed to drip their innocence On his haunting Without which he is just another brokenhearted old man Remembered only by the stories he whispered To the stone apparition of misplaced love She wipes the blood from his fingers Each individually with care Enough to negate the violence of his love The white innocence of the cloth Is stained with his memory Cloth easily forgets the whispers of fantasy Blacked out on reality She kissed the wall gently The closest she ever came to honesty Touching him vicariously

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An old man stands before a brick wall and treats it as the woman he lost. The bricks match the color of her lips, and he presses his trembling fingers into them, whispering to a memory that can't answer. The poem suggests his love has hardened into something stony and one-sided, a "misplaced love" he can only direct at an object.

Then a second figure appears. She cleans the blood from his fingers one by one, gently, as if to undo the damage his devotion does to him. But the cloth she uses ends up stained, and the poem says cloth "easily forgets," hinting that her care leaves no lasting mark on him. In the last lines she kisses the wall herself, which the poem calls the closest she gets to honesty, and she touches him only indirectly through it.

The mood is tender but bleak. Everyone loves through a stand-in, and nobody quite reaches the person they want.

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