Acceptance as Defiance — Summary

Thought & image blend with emotion, creating a weird creature of our own creation, & then we attempt to control this creature with language, but the wild horses of desire, of impulse & sensation, cannot be tamed by satiation or speech.

We must accept the existence of an empty space, the place where we exist; the solitude that will always be with us, & that can not be filled by consumption; by that which consoles & poisons in equal measure.

Nothing can save us unless we shred instinct & learn to forgive, & to accept, that sometimes we are scared & sometimes lonely; sometimes hurt & sometimes just horny;

that sometimes we are nothing more than another animal, born of a capricious mother & a vast, incomprehensible, indifferent father,

& that all we really seek is comfort & some answers to our never-ending questions, & that these motivations are in conflict with each other.

But acceptance is not giving up: acceptance is defiance.

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Written under the name wordsforghosts, the poem begins with how the mind works: thoughts, images and feelings merge into something strange, and we try to rein it in with words. The speaker says that can't work. Desire is like wild horses, and neither feeding it nor talking about it will tame it. What's left is an empty space inside us, a solitude that no amount of consuming can fill.

The tone is frank, even blunt. The speaker admits that we are sometimes scared, lonely, hurt, or just horny, and that we're animals born into an indifferent universe, wanting comfort and answers that pull against each other. Instead of offering a cure, the poem asks us to forgive ourselves and stop fighting our instincts. The mood is quiet and a little bleak, but it ends on a firm note. The last two lines turn "acceptance" from surrender into strength: facing our own loneliness honestly is a form of defiance.

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