Your Daughter — Summary

You tell me that she was a breech-birth. I’d always thought that was worse but you say it was easier that way; didn’t hurt as much as the first time, when your Son was born.

She is two & a half years old.

She’s the most adorable thing I’ve ever seen, & I used to fucking detest the word “adorable”, especially if it was ever used to describe me.

When I tell you this, it makes you laugh:

“You’re not adorable! Sweet, maybe, but only sometimes, & sweet like liquorice: a weird, acquired taste”.

We’ve stayed awake far too late tonight, drinking red wine & talking about our lives.

I once believed we were defined entirely by the roles we play in a stupid fucking game, & that neither the rules nor the roles could ever change but

when you leave me, briefly, to check on the children, I realise that I was wrong:

You’ve changed me completely:

I don’t believe that this is a game any more; now, I see it as a dream waiting

to be realised.

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The speaker sits up late with a woman, drinking red wine and talking about their lives. She tells him about her children: her daughter's easy breech birth and her son's harder one. The speaker finds the two-and-a-half-year-old daughter "adorable," a word he used to hate. When he says so, the woman teases him, saying he isn't adorable himself, only sweet sometimes, "like liquorice."

The mood is warm and intimate, with a bit of playful humour. The scattered, staggered lines make it feel like quiet, unhurried talk. The turning point comes when she briefly leaves to check on the children. Alone, the speaker realises he was wrong to think life was a "stupid fucking game" with fixed roles. He says she has changed him completely. Life now seems less like a game and more like a dream waiting to come true. The poem suggests he feels hopeful, and perhaps a little surprised at himself.

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