Old Families Are Like Old Flowers — Poem analysis

Old families are like old flowers; when we return, After long years to some deserted home, Of crumbling wall and staring front, and yearn For old familiars that now elsewhere roam.

Though flapping board and tangled path foretell That nature back into her bosom green, Will take all these in her unhasting spell, One pledge we find to stay the changing scene.

For bravely still where rose the garden bound, The lusty hollyhock proclaims its youth; Tansy and morning glory hold their ground, And the paled rose surrenders not its truth.

These shall remain though all else goes its way, Less than a Mayan mystery to become, And shall retrieve some sweet forgotten day, Though of its glory but the final sum.

So mid old towns decaying, quaint and gray, Which once we knew but which know us no more, Some lone name clings, scent of an earlier day, Of some home circle and bright hearth of yore.

Gone now that hearth, that home perchance, yet still, Abides this token of once happier hours, Some human bloom its memories to distill; Proving old families are like old flowers.

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Anyone who has wandered onto an abandoned property and found daffodils still blooming in a yard where no house stands will recognize the moment Albert O. Barton builds his poem around. His speaker returns "after long years to some deserted home," finds the walls crumbling and the front "staring" back like a blank face, and then notices something that has refused to quit: the garden. From that discovery grows a comparison that is also the title and the final line. Old families, Barton says, are like old flowers: they outlast the structures that once housed them, and a single surviving name can carry the memory of an entire household.

The poem moves in a clear arc. The first stanza sets the scene of loss, with the speaker yearning for "old familiars that now elsewhere roam." The second brings in nature as a slow, patient enemy, and the phrase "unhasting spell" is a lovely choice. Nature here does not attack; she simply waits, "unhasting," as though time were on her side, and the personification of her "bosom green" makes the reclaiming of the house feel almost maternal rather than violent. Then comes the turn: "One pledge we find to stay the changing scene." The third and fourth stanzas deliver the evidence, and the fifth and sixth step back to apply it to human life.

What makes the flower catalogue effective is how specific and a little defiant it is. The hollyhock is "lusty" and "proclaims its youth," a bold, almost comic verb for a plant that sprawls beside fences. Tansy and morning glory "hold their ground," language borrowed from soldiers, and the "paled rose surrenders not its truth." These plants are ordinary cottage-garden survivors rather than rare hothouse blooms, and the choice matters. Barton is not praising grand dynasties but the plain, hardy sort of family that leaves behind a name and a few stubborn traces. The faded rose is the most touching figure of all, since it has lost its color but not its identity.

One of the poem's more surprising moments is the reference to "a Mayan mystery." The flowers will remain, the speaker says, so that the family does not become "less than a Mayan mystery," meaning that without such traces a vanished household would be as unrecoverable as a lost civilization. The comparison is a stretch, and a slightly grand one for a poem about hollyhocks, but it does its job: it sets the small, domestic loss against the largest loss imaginable, a whole culture reduced to guesswork. The flowers, in other words, are the difference between being remembered and being a riddle.

Formally, the poem is steady and traditional. Each stanza is a quatrain in iambic pentameter with an ABAB rhyme scheme, and the regular beat suits the subject, giving the poem the unhurried, ceremonial tone of a memorial. The rhymes are gentle rather than showy ("return" and "yearn," "ground" and "bound"), and the final stanza closes the circle by repeating the title as its last line, so that the comparison announced at the start is proven by the end. The diction is deliberately old-fashioned: "yore," "perchance," "abides," "mid." Such words belong to the very past the poem mourns, and the language itself seems a little faded and a little fragrant.

The last two stanzas make the central move from garden to town. "Old towns decaying, quaint and gray" are places that "know us no more," a haunting reversal in which the place forgets the person rather than the other way round. Against that forgetting, "some lone name clings," compared to a "scent of an earlier day." Scent is the right sense to choose, since it is the faintest and most evocative of the senses. The final image, "some human bloom its memories to distill," imagines a person as a flower whose essence is concentrated into memory, the way perfume is distilled from petals.

The poem's significance lies in this quiet consolation. It does not deny decay; the "flapping board" and "tangled path" are honestly drawn. But it argues that loss is never total, and that what endures is small, living, and a little stubborn. It also gives a way of reading the landscape: next time a rose bush turns up beside a ruined foundation, it may be a family's last signature.

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