Born To Be Alone — Summary

Born into this world, All alone, Tears streaming down my face, Knowing no one, Illness isolates me, Abuse holds me in tatters, Shyness makes it all the more difficult, Alone I feel at home, at church, in class, Fearful of talking to women, Fearful of rejection, Fearful of opening up to others, Alone I am in the end, When I awake in the morning, Go to sleep at night, I hear the crickets chirp, Not another soul in sight, Alone as I walk the street, Alone at a bar, Alone when out to eat, Alone in my car, Working at the computer, Not a sound to be heard, Hearing the wind gusts in the distance, Hearing my own heart beat, I sit in silence, An all too familiar feeling, Giving up on love, Yet wishing another was with me, An adult in this world, All alone, Tears streaming down my face, Knowing no one, One failed attempt after another, The pessimism mounts, Born to be alone, As I cry in the night.

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Craig Rozniecki's poem is a plain, confessional portrait of loneliness. The speaker says he was alone from birth and has stayed that way into adulthood. He names what keeps him there: illness, abuse, and a shyness that makes it hard to approach women or open up to anyone. The poem suggests these problems feed one another, so fear of rejection leads to more isolation.

The poem's strength is its repetition. "Alone" turns up again and again, in the street, at a bar, in the car, at the computer, even at home and at church. The opening lines about tears and knowing no one return near the end, which makes his life feel like a closed circle. The quiet details, such as crickets, distant wind and his own heartbeat, make the silence almost audible. The mood is sad, tired and raw. Though he says he has given up on love, he still wishes someone were with him, and that small hope makes the ending, "as I cry in the night," hurt more.

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