don't be your own beholder — Summary

beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the mirrors always tell lies our self opinion can't get much colder Seeing ourselves makes self hate rise beauty is in the eye of the beholder so this beholder must be blind can't see it no matter who's told her always feeling her light is outshined It seems when the beholder is you... you can't see the beauty other see If only we could see ourselves anew And see what others see as me Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I hope I find someone..... That can see mine

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Katie Foster's poem takes the old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and turns it into a complaint. If beauty depends on who is looking, the speaker asks, what happens when the one looking is you? Her answer is that you get a bad judge. She describes herself as a blind beholder who can't see her own worth, even when other people tell her about it, and who feels her light is always outshined.

The mood is sad and a little wistful. The repeated line about the beholder keeps circling back, much like the speaker's thoughts about herself. She wishes she could see herself the way others do. The poem ends on a quiet, trailing hope, with the dots and the line pushed across the page: she wants to find someone who can see her beauty, since she can't see it herself.

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